Yes! Now imagine that watching videos of him with other women over and over gave you a massive dopamine hit but still made you feel emotionally terrible. Thats porn for teen boys. Its terrorism.
It’s odd that I’ve read dozens of pieces on why men prefer virgins, but this is the first time I’ve read a woman say they prefer virgins. I’m not sure why this piece is so much rarer.
It's because women on average do not like male virginity. Men and women are not the same, and attraction is not a choice. Women want to know the man is desired by other women (has status), but also that he won't cheat on her, and that is a catch 22 that needs to be reconciled.
If a man was raped or sexually assaulted as a child, would you still think this way about him? Especially if he made mistakes in his adult life without being conscious of this abuse and its role in his bad choices?
Fascinating! I’m Harrison, an ex fine dining line cook. My stack "The Secret Ingredient" adapts hit restaurant recipes (mostly NYC and L.A.) for easy home cooking.
A modest gentleman always humbly choices the love of divine grace in every moment, God made our intimate connections for eternal means only, making love is a heavenly endless bond, with the sacred soul God has made divinely for you, Gods providence over your soul love light reflection is always guided holy by his hand and your endearing prayers~
My wife and I were both virgins when we married. No regrets.
Love this so much.
Yes! Now imagine that watching videos of him with other women over and over gave you a massive dopamine hit but still made you feel emotionally terrible. Thats porn for teen boys. Its terrorism.
It’s odd that I’ve read dozens of pieces on why men prefer virgins, but this is the first time I’ve read a woman say they prefer virgins. I’m not sure why this piece is so much rarer.
Women like men with self-discipline and self-control. It's a natural human desire, for both men and women
It's because women on average do not like male virginity. Men and women are not the same, and attraction is not a choice. Women want to know the man is desired by other women (has status), but also that he won't cheat on her, and that is a catch 22 that needs to be reconciled.
I am sorry I can say nothing more to console you, for love in action is a harsh and dreadful thing compared with love in dreams
When we feel our hearts crushed at both idealized love realized and sacrificial love it’s beautiful a harsh and dreadful thing
~ first post is a quote from the book “The Brothers Karamazov “ Fyodor Dostoevsky
If a man was raped or sexually assaulted as a child, would you still think this way about him? Especially if he made mistakes in his adult life without being conscious of this abuse and its role in his bad choices?
I would have a lot of grace and compassion for him.
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A modest gentleman always humbly choices the love of divine grace in every moment, God made our intimate connections for eternal means only, making love is a heavenly endless bond, with the sacred soul God has made divinely for you, Gods providence over your soul love light reflection is always guided holy by his hand and your endearing prayers~